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Month: September 2013

“Short Term 12,” The grace you give may be your own.

Short-Term-12-555x370Sammy is a pale and furious vision.  He is shirtless, young, scrawny and utterly enraged.   He shrieks as he runs toward the small white gate that serves as the thin membrane between Short Term 12 (his group home) and his ridiculous idea of the life of an autonomous child.  He is ferrel. He is angry. He is, as they say, “throwing a fit.”  He is also dead in his tracks, suddenly caught, held down and screeching.

For a while he flails like a fish on sand but only for moments.  It subsides while you watch. Mason asks him if he almost has it out of his system, which is clearly the case. Grace tells him to let it pass. It does. Now if we were all wise enough and smart enough, that one scene would have taught us everything we need to know from the movie “Short Term 12.”  Thankfully, we are not yet that wise because the rest of the movie is so worth it.

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“Never Forget” and “Do this in Remembrance of Me:” Thoughts on how we remember September 11th.

 

The cross on the World Trade Centre site
The cross on the World Trade Centre site (Photo credit: almost witty)

Today my FaceBook feed is wrought with variations and recollections of the event of September 11th from twelve years ago.   The personal recollections have shrunk from previous years and some simply share a photo or state, “Never forget.”   Seeing that phrase repeated over without more context has begun to trouble me, and not just a little.   What is “never forget” supposed to be shorthand for on this kind of anniversary?

On one hand I think it is referring to a kind of remembering that simple tries to honor those who have suffered, especially the handfuls of people who were not merely victims, but heroes who sacrificed themselves for others.  It is good to remember heroic lives. There are, however,  other kinds of remembering too, which may be mingled in there as well.  Some ways of remembering may be the very spiritual disciplines of a never ceasing war.   It strikes me that the real challenge we face is is not just to remember, it is learning how to remember, how to tell the story in such a way that is about speaking the truth, but it is also about speaking the truth in love.

Tohu-Bohu